I accidentally ended up in a nonmonogamous relationship

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When I met my partner at 24, neither of us wanted to be in a long-term, committed relationship..

It can be as small as planning a weekend getaway and as big as buying a house or having kids.. At first, our relationship centered on fun and enjoyment with a little sprinkle of support but absolutely no shared decision-making..

We could be in a supportive, long-term relationship and still enjoy the freedom to pursue connections with other partners..

Our other partners have been at our table with us for birthdays and have added so much to our lives, without taking away from our own commitment and long-term relationship plans as a couple...

This new approach to relationships has given us the stability and consistency to buy a home and have kids without denying the fact that Qaid may not meet my every need or that my friend's coworker is smoking hot.. Tips for navigating a monogamish relationship..