I was terrified to tell my husband of 5 years that I'm bisexual. When I finally came out, he told me he already knew.

I was 35 when I realized I was bisexual, and I was terrified to tell my husband of five years..

Despite much research and fear, I finally came out to my husband, and he accepted me instantly..

At that point, I started to remember a younger version of myself that struggled with bisexual thoughts..

Eventually, I came to my very scientific conclusion: I was a bisexual woman with heteroromantic tendencies and hetero- and homoerotic drives...

I had done all this emotional work to break the news to my husband, but I hadn't really had time to break the news to myself..