Key Points
When I started dating, my friends at Georgetown wanted more details about my sex life with women..
I didn't want to be their entertainment, so I tried to keep all the details to myself.Now, I feel more confident dating as a bisexual young person..
When I first hit the dating apps this semester, I was very open and candid about my experiencesTalking about dating-app escapades was common; less than a week after returning from winter break several gin and tonics deep one of my male friends asked me who my "girl target" was at Georgetown..
After multiple questions like these, I've realized that my friends may not have malicious intentions but reflect a broader voyeuristic interest in the sex lives of women who are exploring their sexualities..
I noticed that my dating life exists to be a source of excitement for others especially because of my sexualityThat was when I decided I was going to stop sharing details of my sex and dating life with my friends; I didn't want my sex life to be a source of entertainment anymore..
