I'm a bisexual person who doesn't enjoy sex. People are often confused by my identity — and the fact that I have a male fiancé doesn't help.

I'm bisexual, but because I'm dating a man I often feel like I have to prove my queerness..

I feel invisible because my bisexuality and asexuality are often erased...

I'm in a straight-passing relationship, and my queer identity feels invisible..

On the other hand, I have to justify myself all the time to straight people when they find out I'm queer so they don't treat me like I'm an attention seeker...

Though I still feel invisible in most straight and queer spaces, I rely on the people who know me to help me feel like myself...